Life or something like it...
I used to think that we have to take whatever ‘thing’ lies before our eyes. And deal with it.
But my sister convinced me, you still have an option. You face it, or leave it.
Although I don’t like the idea of leaving a problem unsolved, but she's probably right. There is still an option.
You do not have to say ‘hello’ to someone you don’t wish to be friends anymore even when they are standing before you. It’s not a nice thing to do. But still, it is an option.
Life is about choosing. And we make the choices.
When something nice happen to us, that are our choices, even the bad experience; you have to consider it as a part of your choices.
So, don’t blame your spouse if you think your life now is worse than before, because she/he is your choice. Even if they are not your first choice, but you agreed to marry them, that’s what matter. Your life might be better if you stop complaining and do something about it.
But it is also your right to complain and keep complaining and not doing anything. That is your life. Your call!!
Your children seem very much demanding. They do not want to listen to you and always ask for something you don’t want to give for their sake. They cry at shopping, they fight with other kids over a toy. These stuffs make you crazy. But do not blame the child. Maybe you should teach them that they will not always get every single thing they want. They can have a passion over something, but sometime they have to realise they can not have it. Yes, they are just a child. But, better start it with a child.
Don’t blame your friends if they could not provide you the thing that you want and give you another option instead. But you chose to take your other way and turn out not a very pleasant one. You make your call. Not theirs. Consider that you have limitation, so do they.
Friendship is about understanding each other. It is also your choice to understand your friends or leave them whenever they seem not very much willing to extend their limitation. If you were on their shoes, will you??
Instead of blaming the society and pull yourself out when something go wrong and leave a problem unsolved, you can go and take the other way: Go and tell the society how you feel and what you expect from the society, but be kind to consider what the society would expect from you. But it still your choices if you prefer to leave.
So everything will be back to you. You make your choices. You chose, and be chosen.
You chose a husband or a wife. You chose with whom you’re going to be friends. You chose what kind of life you’re going to live. It’s your life. It’s all your choices. Do not blame anyone.